Dating Coaching with Olga Okunyeva
Date, Romance, RelationshipsStart Creating Your Love Story
Helping You Find Success With Personalized Coaching
Dating is a Dance, Practice and Enjoy It
I am not a classic coach, but a dating one. It was vital for me to specialize in the field of relationships from the very beginning because I believe that love has its own rules and dynamics. Yes, there is much life in it, and some couple’s relationships are like an incredible business project. Still, particular emotions and feelings distinguish it from everything else. Therefore, I offer dating coaching to my clients, during which you can raise the following questions, but not limited with:
Self-esteem as a potential partner
Presentation before and on dates - what is essential and what will work for you
Past relationships - how much of them are in the past
Space for relationships in your life, is there any, and how extensive is it
Relationships - is this really what you are looking for? Hidden motives
Your expectations from relationships
Dating mistakes - as an opportunity to see your strengths and actual needs
The image of a potential partner - your requirements and needs
You in a relationship - what is your role and the ideal relationship model
Date not interview - how to find balance and not waste time
Critical skills for meetings and dates
Skills and personal qualities for long-term relationships
and much more according to the situation and request
Why you should have a dating coaching?
Actually you shouldn’t. But here are some points, which ones you may experience during your dating coaching process. Treat dating coach in this case as your confidant. Dating coach shadows your story and let you adjust your vision on what happens on each step.
Improve the quality of your dating life
During the dating process, questions or doubts may arise. My clients can get a coach’s consultation both at the stage of preparation for their first dates, and during the process – with the aim of establishing communication with the partner they like, motivation to voice some important issues and in the right way, when moving the relationship to a new stage. I work mainly in an individual format, but I can also work with couples that have formed as a result of my work as a matchmaker. In coaching, as in matchmaking, I am guided by the same rules – confidentiality comes first.
Advocate the voice of your heart
Getting a professional, unbiased but empathetic opinion, without imposing any option on us, is a valuable resource that we all need not only in matters of personal life. Simply in matters of choice and building long-term relationships – such a consultation takes on special significance, especially in the long term.
Build healthy self-esteem
For clients who are just getting ready to start an active dating life or return to it and are having dialogues in their heads – this is an opportunity to correctly formulate a request for finding a partner, determine what is essential and what is secondary when choosing, see their strengths and weaknesses. Together with working on your image, this is an opportunity to develop healthy self-esteem. With such initial data, the dating process is easy and relaxed, and a partner is found quickly enough and with mutual interest.
Work with the coach at your own pace
Sometimes I can recommend pausing the dating process so that the client can pay attention to himself. At the same time, continuing the coaching process. For each client, this can be an individual solution – first coaching and then dating, first dating and then coaching when the couple has already formed, or everything in one time space – dating and coaching sessions.
Better dating, better life
In working with clients, I use the best practices from the art of communication and social psychology to work with relationships, but with their author’s adaptation for dating. My goal is to give clients tools that they can implement in their lives and achieve changes. Clients should feel comfortable dating, but they will also be able to carry these new skills into their social and professional lives. By coming to coaching and working with relationships – you will be able to gain more, as these tools will not be slow to show up everywhere.
What will make you feeling more confident
Dating coaching can start long before first dates but will always be healthy ground. There will be active discussions regarding search strategies, the profile of a potential partner, the stages of a relationship, how to best spend time, how to understand that this partner is right for you, and more.
My background is based on my professional experience, during which I worked with scientists, people in business, managers, and entrepreneurs. I can distinguish different types of thinking and dynamics, understand what exactly you can offer a partner in the future, and correctly assess your strengths. It is clear to me what you have gone through to reach the level where you are now and that what you sacrificed is not your shortcoming. My superpower is to talk highly intelligently about my feelings with the right words and clear arguments.
Dating Coaching in Package of Matchmaking Services
All matchmaking packages include a dating coach consultation(s). During the matchmaking process, a client receives options that match his request, but he makes the request and the choice himself. That is why it is valuable to have the opportunity to consult and make sure that you are forming your request based on your needs and values, not on your attachment type or expectations.
More Options
Exit Interview – A sensitive conversation with your exes about you as a dating and relationship partner, your pros and cons. Feedback so you can see yourself from the outside through the eyes of your exes.
Rehearsal for an Important Conversation (or Mock Date) – When you want to have a conversation about an important topic for you, tell a personal story, or raise a personal issue for you and/or your partner. You don’t know how your partner will react and what words will be right for you, you can simulate it with a coach.
Choosing an image and context for a date – stylization of your image, the appropriateness of gifts, topics for conversation, ideas for spending time and/or discussing locations. Planning a date that will contribute to your romantic mood and desire to get to know your partner better.
Individual Dating Coaching Session
Before or after the matchmaking process, client has a chance to buy a coaching session. The session on personal online & offline dating, a preparation for the matchmaking process or when the couple has successfully formed. We also provide coaching services to the fiancee, upon her individual request.
More Options
Mock date – if you’ve ever wanted to know how interesting you are on dates, what nuances you should pay attention to and what you should change, you can “go on a date” with a coach. You will be able to get feedback and see patterns of behavior that may be limiting you from romantic relationships.
Search & dating strategy – if you’re not ready to dive into matchmaking, you can get advice on matchmaking strategy from a professional matchmaker with focus of how to meet a partner for long-term relationships.
Profile making for dating websites & applications – recommendations on choosing a photo, as well as creating a description by a professional copywriter based on your life story and personal characteristics.